Surgery was the morning of Wednesday, February 6th at the University of Minnesota Amplatz Children's Hospital. Check in was at 5:30 a.m. and after getting registered we headed straight to pre-op where we would spend the next two hours until surgery. The nurses collected basic information and we got Wyatt changed into the pj's provided by the hospital.
The time in pre-op was spent trying to keep Wyatt distracted since his last feeding was at 3 a.m. He couldn't have anything 4 hours before surgery. This wasn't as long as I thought it would be and he did much better with this than we thought he would. He did get pretty cranky that last hour but we tried our best to distract him with toys, music, and walking around.
We had lots of visitors in the pre-op room. The surgeon and anesthesiologist came in to explain everything. Dr. Lacey, the plastic surgeon, initialed Wyatt's cheek - That is the blue marker you see. Different members of the team that would be in the operating room came by to meet us. Everyone told us they were going to take good care of Wyatt.
Soon it was time to go. A little before 7:30 we headed toward the operating room. We walked Wyatt as far as we could and kissed him goodbye in what they call the "kissing corner." We watched them carry him away.
As I watched Wyatt being carried into surgery the The Child Life Specialist suggested we take a moment in a consultation room near the area where we would wait. I could hear Wyatt crying as they carried him down the hall. I was doing okay up to this point and didn't understand why we would need to go to a consultation room until I looked at Michael. He was crying... and then I was crying.
When we were ready we checked in at the waiting area. It was really nice and there were monitors that provided updates on where Wyatt was. Wyatt was Lo..zW.
Surgery took a little over an hour and a half and he was moved to recovery at 9:11 a.m. We anxiously waited for them to bring us back to see him.
The worst part for Michael was seeing Wyatt being taken into surgery. The worst part for me was seeing him in the recovery room.
There were wires and tubes all over him. His eyes were puffy and his lips were swollen. He had iodine and blood around his lips. He was a little out of it from the anesthesia and he was in pain. He cried and it was the saddest cry I have ever heard. His voice was horse from being intibated. They ended up giving him a shot of morphine a little after we arrived and that seemed to help him. We tried giving him Pedialyte but he only took about a half an oz. Then he slept. I held him in recovery for an hour and a half and then we were moved to our room in the hospital.
When we got to our room Wyatt was already doing better. You could see the grogginess fading and hints of his personality returning.
As the day went on he did better and better. He took a lot of naps.
At this point he was just on Tylenol. We tried Pedialyte again and he took about another oz. A little later we tried his milk and he took about 3 oz which was really good. From then on he was back to his old self as far as feeding went. He had kicked out his IV from his ankle but didn't need it anymore because he was doing so well. They monitored him closely to make sure his kidneys started functioning again.
By Thursday morning he was all smiles. He had tape on his mouth after surgery but they removed it before we went home. He has to wear his No No's (arm restraints so he doesn't put his hands near his mouth) for the next couple of weeks but so far he doesn't seem to mind them.
Wyatt did amazing and we are so happy with how everything went.
We are now home and everyone is doing great. Bella was very concerned about her little brother and glad we are all together again.
We would like to thank all of our friends and family for your thoughts and prayers.
Thank you for sharing this with us Jaimie! I am so happy he is doing well. And good to know that he is OK with those No No's. My love to all of you!!!
ReplyDeleteJaimie, my husband BJ and I have been following your blog for the last few weeks. We are 27 weeks along with a sweet baby boy we are told has a large cleft lip and palate. Your words have been such an inspiration to us as we have been trying to grow a thick skin as we wrap our minds around the journey ahead. We have been praying for your sweet little Wyatt as he went into surgery on Wednesday and are so relieved that he is recovering well. Thank you so much for the comfort and help you are providing for these two anxious, soon to be parents. :)
ReplyDeleteHeather! I hope you find this message. Thank you so much for your comment. It is a lot to take in but you are going to do great! Let me know if you would like to connect in another format.
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DeleteYes! I would really like that. It is kind of funny... since well-meaning people have found out about our little Liam,they are coming out of the woodwork saying things like "I have a friend, who has a friend whose neighbor has a daughter with spina bifida. You should talk to them!" They mean well, but I would really like to speak to someone who I can truly relate to. :) I was so touched by your blog these last few weeks that it has honestly gotten me through some dark days. Thank you. What is the best method for you? E-mail? Facebook? I am brand new to blogs so I am not sure exactly how this works. :)
It is easy to feel alone in this. Even with the online communities. You can email me at jaimiellopez@yahoo.com. I am also on Facebook. I don't know what online communities for clefts you are already connected with but BabyCenter has a good one and there is a group on Facebook that started from BabyCenter I really like.
DeleteSo glad things have been going well with Wyatt! He looks like quite the trooper through all this :)
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